Category Archives: Conflict Resolution

Mediation and Negotiation

Last week was spent with Jan Sunoo and Pat Dunn from the Federal Mediation & Conciliation Service in the USA.  It was an intense week and we looked at tools and techniques for third part interventions including an Interest Based Negotiation model.

Pat demonstrating some active negotiation skills

Many of the skills were similar to that of TIDES’s OCN courses in Conflict Management (active listening, summarising, paraphrasing and re-framing etc.) but the process itself differed in the fact that it focussed very much on negotiation and not on mediation as a form on conflict resolution (i.e. the ability of the third-party to offer potential alternative solutions was much greater).  I was able to co-facilitate a full day role play with Jan which allowed to me an insight into the more subtle nuisances of the process itself. We also looked at other facilitation techniques such as Appreciative Inquiry and Open Space Technology.

Jan looking at Issues and Criteria in an Interest based Negotiation situation.

Nonviolence

It’s been a few days since my last post as I’ve spent the weekend (and the last few evenings) working on my first major assignment, a 10 page Conflict Analysis report.  I found it a useful exercise with the process of practically looking at “connectors” as well as “dividers” and “drivers” in a conflict situation at home, very beneficial to my work.

Week 2 finished with Dr. Chaiwat Satha Anand (Director of the Thai Peace Information Centre at the Foundation for Democracy and Development Studies) giving us a thought-provoking lecture into the “Theories of Non-violence”.  His theoretical framework and personal experiences were all very practical and he posed question such as; what really constitutes a non violent action?  He proposed that all of these actions lie on this continuum somewhere:

Dr. Chaiwat Satha Anand discussing the differences in sitting positions between protesters who ran away and were shot and those who remained unharmed.

We also started to prepare for our first field trip to the border down of Mae Sot in a weeks time.  More to follow…

Why we must talk

I watched this TED talk on the plane to Bangkok.  It’s by Jonas Gahr Støre, the foreign minister of Norway, who makes a compelling case for open discussion, even when values diverge, in an attempt to build greater security for all.  He talks about:

“The deficit of political dialogue, our ability to address modern conflicts as they are, to go to the source of what they are all about and to understand the key players and how to deal with them…”

Many of his points struck a chord with me and many of the themes came up during lectures this week.  When do we talk and when do we walk away and under what circumstances? Definitely worth a watch if you haven’t seen it already.

My Conflict Resolution Blog

I’m a conflict resolution facilitator working for TIDES Training and Consultancy in Northern Ireland and I’m planning to blog about my time as a Rotary World Peace Fellow from February 15th 2012.

Video

Peace Talks

Great video from International Alert